(Disclaimer: This transcript is auto-generated and may contain mistakes.) Lot of people you know want to know what my dating rules are Well We don't really have much to go by But I do know that the Bible says that they're not you're not supposed to touch Right man should not be touching a woman unless they're married, okay So all this junk about hey, it's okay to give hugs. It's okay to hold hands What's the Bible say though does this say that this sale? It's okay to give hugs It's okay to to touch a woman before you're married to them does this say that No, it doesn't it says the opposite of that, but in our sick and twisted society We got this idea that it's just okay. It's not okay Not according to God's words not and how do you avoid that just get married? How do you if you're so burnt up in your lust that you can't control yourself then you need to get married, okay? That's what the Bible says Genesis 2 verse 18 Genesis 2 verse 18 The Bible says this and the Lord God said it is not good that the man should be alone I will make him and help me for him Now again last week. I covered this when I said meat doesn't mean the steak okay meat and EET means Fitting for them okay. I'll make it help meet for him of someone that's fitting for that man Someone that's going to help mount and out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every foul of the Air and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them Whatsoever Adam called every living creature That was the name thereof and Adam gave names to all the cattle and the foul of the air and every beast of the field But for Adam there was not found and helped meet For him and the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept and he took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh instead thereof and The rib and the Lord God Had that had taken from the man he made woman and brought her unto the man And Adam said this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh She shall be called woman because she was taken out of man, so the first man Married his rib basically. I mean God made woman out of his out of man's rib That's what the Bible says right they they are one flesh really So but it says in verse 24 therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave Unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh So what is that therefore because of this reason right because of this reason shall a man leave his father and mother And shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh, so when do you leave your father and mother? What's the Bible say? When do you leave your father and mother when you cleave unto your wife right now what it says? So there's the leave and cleave Okay, you leave and then you cleave okay, so but the thing is is that? Cleave has two different meanings, right? Cleave could be your chopping something up. You know the meat cleaver you cleave that meat But it also can mean that you're cleaving you're holding fast to somebody So what's which one is it talking about here? Well obviously you divide from your parents at that point right, but it also has the meaning where you cleave you hold fast To your spouse you know a young man leaves his father and mother he gets married and they to become one flesh So it's pretty simple look you know people just like freak out about this kind of preaching. That's what the Bible says get over it So the word cleave well look it says they shall Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother so we can see that It's the Bible's clearly telling you leave your parents, and then you cleave to your wife So I think the meaning of cleave in this verse is that you're clinging or cleaving to your spouse at that point So it's the opposite of leave in this part in this in this text So when you get married you hold fast your wife you stick to them like glue right? That's what holding fast means you know you're you're tight together, but you're not tight together until that point comes Okay, that's you know kids listen up Look the world is going to brainwash you into thinking that holding hands and kissing and doing all this stuff before you're married is good It's not good the Bible's against it You need to learn it now because all it's going to do is lead you into fornication That's all it's going to do and look the Bible is very clear. God will condemn fornicators He will condemn adulterers you