(Disclaimer: This transcript is auto-generated and may contain mistakes.) Look at Proverbs chapter 6 verse 23 for the commandment is a lamp in the laws light And reproofs of instruction are the way of life to keep thee from the evil woman So, please notice that he's saying look I'm giving you Commandments. I'm giving you a lamp Instructions, but primarily is to keep it from the evil woman That should show you the severity of the danger of evil sluts whores and the like Okay To keep thee from the evil woman from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman Now, why would the Bible call a whore a strange woman? Well, another word for strange would be a foreigner Okay, so a strange woman is a foreigner trying to make her way into the relationship between a man and a woman They're a foreigner. They shouldn't be there. Okay, so when a man commits adultery, he's committing adultery with the foreigner Someone who's not doesn't belong there. Okay Now it says there from the flattery of the tongue of the strange woman So this is important because at work if you're working on a secular job You know, you need to be careful talking to the ladies at your job And look if you're married Ladies, you know, you need to make sure that you're you do you're puffing up your your husband's ego. I'm not joking You know tell him he's handsome tell him he's buff If he's got a gut say man, I like that thing looks good You know, I'm serious You think it's you think I'm joking. But here's the thing. If you don't do it someone else will if you don't praise your husband another woman will And you know what if you don't praise your husband for his qualities You know talk about how handsome he is and how he's so strong and You know, I don't know whatever All those other things that your husband's good at whatever if you're like, no, he doesn't need that Well, you know what a woman who's gonna find him at his job and this isn't right I'm not saying it's right if he gives into that but you know what she's gonna feed into his ego That's why sometimes you hear about stories about people committed in adultery and you'll hear about like a man who has his you know beautiful wife but then he goes for this other woman who's just like a You know whore And she's like what the world were you thinking? Well, the thing is that she was puffing him up she was complimenting him You know, she was giving him what he basically he needed from his wife, but wasn't getting I'm talking about as far as words are concerned So why is he gonna make sure that hey you put you you have to be your husband's cheerleader? Okay, I don't think so then you know what then you need to get your feminist mentality, right Okay, you know, you know, he needs to make sure just be content with the things as he has be content with me You know what put that aside, you know, just close your mouth and just Do as the Bible says and be a blessing to your husband and praise him reverence him I mean, this is the Bible talk about reverence. That's respect, right? Well, one of the ways you do that is by praising who he is Okay now on the flip side of that man be respectable You know be the kind of man that your day your wife doesn't have to like remind herself to praise Like it should come naturally obviously a man you just have a reason to praise you But either way, this is a very important because the Bible talks about the flattery So when you praise your husband You actually are sealing the deal so that when that strange whore comes and praises your husband He's like Get away from me Wicked woman. Yeah, no You know, you need to move somewhere else. I'm married. You see this you see that I'm married go like this Say this is what I think of you. I'm married I'm serious. You say why because if not, she can destroy your marriage Your children your life simply by the flattery