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And you see the amount of love that the Apostle Paul had in you I forget if it's first or second Thessalonians We said that we were willing not only to impart the gospel of God to you, but with our own souls That that they were that they loved them and cared about them so much I mean they're pouring out their souls under these people because they want them to the seed they want them to grow He what they want them to see the good example and they're willing to just sacrifice be self-sacrificial to help them And This is what we all need to do Yes, you do that when you go out and take part of your time and you go out and preach the gospel to the lost But you know what? There's probably more areas where we can do better at that where we could do better at helping people grow How about even just praying for the people? I love that I heard that earlier in the service tonight pray for those that got saved and pray for those that didn't Right, how about just having even that level of care and thoughts and focus on other people? How can we get them to succeed? How can we get more people taught and trained and discipled? Yes lead them to Christ, but you know, what more can we do to help the people of this area? What can we do? Absolutely follow the tried and true to everything that that that the Bible lays out and the soul and everything else But let's have that servant minister spirit and attitude to do what we can you know what sometimes you might get burned Someone might stab you in the back someone might take advantage of you Welcome to Christianity Don't let that discourage you yeah, it's sad when it happens no one likes when it happens No one likes getting stabbed in the back. It's not fun But you can't let that let get you out That doesn't change what when people do bad to you that doesn't change what's right ever never changes what's right It's just like I give this advice over and over and over again my sermons on marriage Right the Bible tells us husbands and wives have your have the specific roles laid out. You can read Ephesians chapter 5 You know what don't let The actions or inactions of your spouse determine whether or not you're going to be right with God in your role Wives if your husband's a jerk and he doesn't love you self-sacrificially the Bible says the Bible says he ought to love me How about you be submissive and obedient the way the Bible says? because that's what you can do and that's what you could control and you can follow Christ and Not worry about what someone else does how about you know? vice-versa men Well, my wife's not listening. She's not being very obedient. She's not doing what she's supposed to be You know what you love themselves sacrificially. Anyways, you love them the way that Christ of the church and gave himself for it That's what you're called to do And whatever other areas you have and I mean that's just one that's really easy to bring up because You know for everyone that's married. That's something that probably comes up every day It's something that everyone could can use to grow and to help your marriage right to say look I'm gonna focus on what I can Do you can't control what other people do? I'm gonna serve the Lord to the best of my ability and if other people don't that's on them I'm gonna serve the Lord to the best of my ability and Whatever John does and whatever Peter does and whatever, you know, anyone else does what is that to me? I'm gonna follow Christ